Last night me and the BF talked. A LOT! About several things that we didn't know about each other. Some things that he told me were like OMG, while others made me give him the ::side eye::. Overall, we came to a realization. We don't have SHIT in common. Most people would feel like that relationship is doomed, going NO WHERE! Negative...When we are together we talk and talk and talk. There is NEVER awkward silence or searching for conversation topics. Our interests are completely different. They don't even grace within the same genre. How the hell have I been in a relationship with someone THIS long and have no common boundaries with him!!?? He had the answer (he always does ;] )...I asked him how the hell did we fall in love. He brought up a VERY good point. He said because he was easy to talk to. OMG, this little fucker was so right!!! Before we started going out...who did I go to when I needed someone to talk to??? HIM!!! DUHHH LA!!! How the hell couldn't you see that!!!!! Alexander Mitchell Peterson has been the ONLY other man you can tell EVERYTHING to. And you've kept some thangs from him here and there (its all gravy boo..i still LOVE you)!!! I like to talk. Talking is something that I do, and when I get into it. I get carried away. So the next question I asked was what the fuck do we talk about? I mean two people with nothing in common can't hold heavy conversations. I was confused. But he connected the dots. He said we talk about life and our relationship. And from there other topics of conversation spur up! How fucking amazing is that shit!? My whole life I thought finding love was going to be difficult because I'm weird, and I do weird things. Love isn't about finding someone who is EXACTLY like you. You would hate the living shit out of that person! They would have all the flaws that you hated in about yourself. I think I have finally found the answer to it all. The answer that I cried over, screamed over and had my heart broken over! Love is all about companionship. FELLOWSHIP! I have learned SO much this past year. It's felt like 10 years. I'm happy and content with where things are going.
Ok, I promise I won't make this blog strictly about me and my BF! Some times I just can't help it.
Tuesday, January 12, 2010
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