Why Men Cheat !!!

I found this interesting article on why men decide to cheat. Interesting. Bullshit. Hmmm.


1. “In my opinion, I think that a lot of men are as faithful as their options. Tiger Woods the pro golfer/billionaire had access to almost any and everything he wanted, including a lot of women throwing themselves at him…hence more options.” I believe that’s why you find a lot of politicians, athletes, musicians and people with money (power) cheating more.

2. “In many ways, I think men are predisposed to cheating because of our biology. Men can reproduce far more frequently than women, so there’s this primordial impulse to spread our seed. Women on the other hand are born with all the eggs they’ll ever have and thus far more selective in choosing a mate.”

3. “I needed something to stroke my ego and she wasn’t doing it anymore…I turned to my options.”

4. “The reasons men cheat are as varied as the women they cheat on. While no two cases are exactly alike, I think that it is safe to say that men cheat for the same reason women do: because they’re unhappy.”

5. “In my lil’ Nigerian opinion, men cheat cause they WANT TO. Period.”

6. “I think the biggest reasons that men cheat (aside from a biological urge to spread seed) is vanity/ego. We’re always using women as a barometer of our self worth. The more women you’re able to seduce, the more desirable you are, and the better you feel about yourself (at least in theory).”

7. “It’s nature and nurture. In these days it has a lot to do with nature. Everywhere you look, whether it is music, television, or politics- there is always sex. Damn near every song that’s out, whether it’s singing or rapping, it’s talking about sex with multiple women.”

8. “For me, the subject of cheating is a matter of cheating on ourselves, lying to ourselves and then getting in situations that we know would not satiate that longing for real joy, and real connection, real passion…because we haven’t been nurturing that within our relationship with ourselves.”

9. “Sometimes there is a moment and you are connected to that moment and there is no stopping the energy and you just go with it and by the time you have stopped to think about it, you have already gone there.”

10. “It ain’t cheatin’ unless you get caught. Well at least that’s what some men think. Lol. The best answer is just some men are just dumb and think with the wrong head. Temptation is a Mutha F*%#A!”

11. “The short answer is that most cheaters feel a sense of entitlement. For the most part, they don’t even think that they’re doing anything wrong. The others just don’t’ have it in them to quash temptation for any number of reasons.”

12. “When things get less interesting at home you need some strange to make things exciting (not like i know or anything). Or maybe honey just isn’t that sexua,l but you luv her so much life without her just isn’t the same. Last, but not least, maybe the other female you looking at is just that DAMM fine (hint KIM KARDASHIAN or however you spell it). Or whatever your poison. For me it’s somethin foreign luv. Those women. Don’t know what it is about foreigners or foreign lookin, but sh#t that’s my KRYPTONITE!!!!!!”

13. “Cheating may not necessarily be about the sex, but a lack of intimacy or connection with our significant other.”

14. “Society comes into play with the player, pimp, womanizer, playboy labels it places upon men who have success with women. Not to mention all the negative superlatives for wives…ball and chain, old lady etc.”

15. “Being in a monogamous relationship signifies the end of an era most men are reluctant to let go of, and the only way to recapture it is to stray outside of the relationship to maintain that impression of themselves.”

The article ended with a quote that I would like to share with you guys.....

“A man’s guilt extends as far as the pain he causes his lover, NOT in the actions. If the deed never comes to light, then neither does the remorse or the incentive to not do it again.”

VERY true. So very, very true!